The common theme I found in these pieces was this: if you aren't thin, if you aren't light skinned, if you don't fit into the Western ideal of beauty then you are other, a freak that dares to deny the so-called normal and ideal their "perfect lie".
LeBesco tells us in Citizen Profane that "The fat person makes the ultimate bad citizen in that she or he reveals the American Dream for what it is : a fabrication." ( pg. 56). It was nothing new to be told being fat equated to laziness and that social stigma led to yet another type of discrimination. Turn on the telly, listen to the radio, surf the internet and within seconds of beginning any of these activities you will be exposed to a commercial that relates to weight loss or exercise. From the most appealing to some of the silliest things ever to be put into the media, all of these ads are aiming to make people feel bad about themselves and long for a better body. The vanity displayed by our culture when it comes to this constant exposure has come to border on the extreme. It assumes that everyone who is overweight is non-productive and merely lazy. Yet I continue to be somewhat at odds with this because I know several hard working people who are overweight that I would never label as merely lazy. Perhaps the most significant thing to recognize that the hatred for bodies that are "other" because of weight is that unlike race or gender, there is the belief that the person has made a choice to let themselves be obese. They're being willingly defiant. And keep in mind that hate and fear go hand and hand: people fear even the idea of that presumed choice. That no matter how hard they may try now, eventually, for whatever reason, they will become the thing they hate and in turn be looked down upon by others.
"We must create a dialogue that extends beyond these forums and into our daily lives, a dialogue that leads us to less shame, less denial and more room for individuality. It's up to the third wave of feminism to make sure this conversation continues and that a support network exists." (Richards, pg. 200)
There is something about beauty that appeals to all of us in this world, be it in literature, music, film, or people. I think what is imperative to remember is that just because someone does not fit into a neat little box of what one single person or one single group's ideal image of what is beauty doesn't mean that this person should be made to feel less, made into that loathed "other". We should support each other and cherish our differences and what we can learn from them instead of being so critical and trying to make everyone conform to limiting, biased "norm". We are all unique and have something very distinctive to add to the world around us. And after all, wouldn't the world be damned dull if we were all carbon copy perfect cookie cut-outs of the same person over and over again?